Online Dating Made Easy: No Vague Concepts - Exactly What To Say & Do by Carson Hurst

Author:Carson Hurst [Неизв.]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2014-09-13T23:00:00+00:00

Chapter 5

Opening Message and Starting the Conversation

The reason it’s so important to be lighthearted in your first few messages is because she has no idea who is typing on the other PC. Women get some pretty crazy and weird messages on all these sites. Look over all early messages before you send them and ask yourself if there is any way she could possibly infer that the sender is unstable? If so, delete it and start over. Anything that could be misconstrued as crazy or weird will be a deal-breaker. Your opening message, in particular, needs to have a very casual and friendly feel to it, compared with your later messages.

As mind boggling as it is, two of the most common opening messages women receive are “Hi” and “Hey, how’s it going?”(the entire body of the message). Don’t be this guy.

After experimenting with literally hundreds of cookie-cutter and individually catered opening messages, I have found one message template that is head and shoulders above the rest in eliciting a positive response. Of course, there are plenty of others that will work. If you can come up with something funny and interesting that will stand out to a particular woman, by all means, use it. It’s always a good idea to reference something in your opener that proves you read her profile. If you can’t think of anything or if her profile doesn’t offer much to comment on, use this template.

Subject line:

"Hey, this is [insert name here],”

Message body:

“My female friend who convinced me to join was just showing me some of the crazy/weird (but mostly just desperately flattering) messages she gets on here. Have you had any "interesting" ones yet?"

Why is this, the single most effective opening message?

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